It would have me terribly upset and I don't know how you reframe from blowing a gasket,
Whatever happens at work happens. I have zero control over anyone calling, or over how the bosses respond.
If I am learning one thing as I read and get smarter, it is NO CONTACT with WW is best for me. Responding throws things out of kilter.
BS (me) 57 WW (her) 51 M - 27+ years Sons - 34/21 daugh - 32/26 D-day - (A#1 Apr 98) (A#2 Oct 08) Status - minimal contact (me) living with OM (her) Divorce - Scheduled for Apr 09