Biggest pain came at the end. 2 things. First, I asked if the newer vehicle (8 passenger)could stay at house with kids as it is a larger vehicle (other one is only a 5 passenger). Response - why? What needed for? How come? I explained more seats so kids could take friends. She asked when that happened (that kids couldn't take friends) and I actually had an instance for her from last week. "I'll get back to you" was the reply.
That sounds like it makes sense to me too. Sounds like your W is still not getting the reality of how financial $$$ will result in D. She'll have to use her at least some of her spending money on the kids if not most or all of it. Duh!
I have gotten into a lot of disagreements with my H, as you know. I tend to be fairly flexible on most stuff, but there are a few issues, like re: the kids and stuff that I'm going to hold firm on. The stuff that really matters to me. The 80 or 90% of stuff H wants to fight about that doesn't matter that much to me I agree with. Of course, he's upset about the few things I don't let him control/decide!!! Oh, well!!! Karen
