Happy Valentines Day Jeff! Sounds like guilt to me too. The card and the Disney mom stuff. I always worry about that spoiling the kids, esp. my D9 he spoils her terribly which he didn't do hardly at all before the A. But I try to not do the same at least & make her save up chore money and allowance for stuff which is what we used to do before H became Disney Dad.
I've always thought your sitch would be resolved only if your W got some serious counseling. Otherwise, best to try to focus on life with you and your kids. (((((Jeff)))) Karen
