Hi PM, how long have you been Plan A or DBing. It says you seperated on 3/08 but were you still trying to work the M.
Plan B is scary. I have given my H a Plan B letter even though he is deep in with OW and served me for D. But if things are not rosey or they start fighting I want him to know there is a roadmap home and love for him in our house with boundaries.
There is only so long you can go without starting to hate your H. I did not do a good plan A but I had to go plan B because of his drinking. If H never comes out of the fog. I feel I did everything that I could.
Just think you wrote "I am nowhere without my M", ask yourself the hard question -- where are you now. You have been on your own for almost a year. We can talk more about this. Let me know.
Not that I ever have a chance of getting back with my H but what do I have to lose at this point.
I am going to make a second post of last night. pretty down.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
