Just wanted to say hello and that I'm reading. Great story of your friends, BTW!
One thing I wondered- you mentioned in one of your posts that your friend said that you want H bac so badly that you think about it a lot (or something to that effect?). I wonder, could you be transmitting some of that want to your H at all? They can smell these things, so I've heard so I'm just wondering if working hard on detaching and not thinking about his coming home migh help things a bit....