the problem with those dating websites, is those guys are players, trolling for women. Yeah I did this 2 yrs ago....they are players, looking for a good time....most of them not really sincere. He prob wasnt working sweets
Me 53 H 51 OW 25 Bomb may 06 left june 8/ 06 ILYBNILWY (twice!) 7/6/07 H wants to come home 7/21/07 H comes home 7/07 -7/08 long haul letting go of OW now piecing in earnest
I don't think Cinders met him on a dating site an2m, she just later saw him on one.
I haven't been on a dating site but I do know people who have and had long term relationships from them, so I guess like everything in life there's good and bad.
I didn't meet him on a dating site ! He came over to do some work on the pool. He works really hard, used to own his own business in Bali (Indonesia) but moved back after (I think) a bad breakup... Anyway, he was working, and tonight he has a shift at his sister's local bakery. He sent a few TM today and the one about valentine, was kind of implying to see if I was seeing someone...I wrote back, 'no valentine for me yet, hope you've had better luck...thanks anyways and let me know when you have some time to hang the shelves' He wrote back, 'hahaha, nope no valentine for me either...I'll let you know as soon as I can come by for the shelves'.
I'm leaving it up to him now.
Afterall, we're supposed to have learnt something from 3 years DB !!!!
I'm all dressed and ready to go ! Bet you if 'handyman' saw me, he'd be quite impressed, I feel like a beautiful lady !
(yikes, I think I'm ovulating !) hahahaha !
Take care xx
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
Cinders Happy Valentines Day. Go out and have some fun, regardless.
If you do get back in the dating scene, you need to follow the Rules book. I followed it and that is how I got my current h to marry me, but I missed the Rules book for M and here I am DB to get my h back.
Enjoy the day!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
It's a book called the "Rules". It's all about getting a man. Tells you not to be so anxious to return calls, how to keep him hungry for more. Ending the phone conversations before he does etc.
I sold mine at a garage sale after h and I were M. I told the woman who bought it that was how I got my h to marry me and wished her luck. The part I missed was how to keep them once you marry them. LOL!
You could try to find the book online. It's a fun interesting read for the dating girl.
I most recently found the Rules for M book by the same authors since h left. I agree with many of the principles but not all. Darn I found the book though after h left. He he he!
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
Handyman (J) came by today...he still has a great body ! (yikes, I sound like a man !)
He hung the shelves for me and we ended up having a few glasses of wine together. We talked a lot and laughed too. He's not really my type, but I think he totally liked me.... (that's a bit awkward). He left about half an hour ago and has sent me 2 Tm's since. I politely replied, and said thank you for the work he did.
Strange, having spent the afternoon with a man I don't know too well...I'm excited, the attention boost was good for me. I think as a woman it's nice to feel desirable again.
Funny thing is...H called while J was here and I was kind but short on the phone to H, it made J smile...
Kids will be home soon ! YES !!!!!
Take care, xxx
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
Cinders, It's great that J came over and hung the shelves for you. I think it was very nice that the two of you relaxed just a bit and enjoyed a couple of glasses of wine together. At least you are aware of your feelings about him and the situation. He sounds like he really enjoyed your company, i.e., tming already!
I had to chuckle about your comment about being a bit short on the phone w/the h, but you know what....good for you! It's time that you began to live again.
I'm sure both you and the children will be so happy to see each other! Won't they be surprised to see the shelves up!
Enjoy!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
