I think she is trying to feel less guilty perhaps. So is the deed done? I know it is a strange period of time. I just assumed I was divorced, didn't really want to know when it became final. But when I found out that it was final, it wasn't nearly as tragic as I thought. I think that was because I did a lot of work on myself up until that point.
I am a work in progress. Come join the club! Happy Valentine's Day!
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory