Just hold your ground. You can be nice and firm(with the emphasis on the firm). He is trying to break you down, don't let him. He has done enough/said enough that if I ever met the man I would have to slap him for being such a jerk to you.
kat
Kat, and you know I would love to give your X a slap for the same reason!!!
I was thinking about sending an apology email or at least explaining the L stuff is business, etc., but I guess it's not my job to apologize for my L and if he wasn't threatening me in the first place she wouldn't have done that...I didn't even tell my L about it, she had asked if he still wanted the kids in ps and I said yeah, he just emailed me this week and was making it clear that if I want things to go well, and not get deposed or go to trial, I should move to his town so they can public school. The funny thing is I think he should be way more avoiding that stuff than me, yeah, I was depressed, but the way he treated me was horrible plus the A, and I would plan on being honest if it came to that.
I was bummed yesterday about the job, but feel fine today. Picked up D9's girl scout cookies this am and chatted with the other moms and kids. The kids were home when I got back. I'm getting really good at being elsewhere when H comes over! I went to the coffee shop for dinner last night and that was fun too. I'm still getting used to going places alone!
I was listening to some happy music today in the car, that song "I'm a Believer" from the Shrek movie was on and I'm having good PMA today. I had a thought that I just need to find someone that will stick with me through thick and thin, but hopefully mostly thin (I mean on my part)!!! Karen
