You are absolutely right. We talked this morning and I appologized for pissing her off last nite. She talked about my comment of the facebook comment and how ridiculous it was. I acknowledged and validated. She then started about the emotional abuse she felt she suffered over the years. I acknowledged and validated.
We talked about what it means to try. She thinks she's trying now. I acknowledged and validated. She talked about what is making her uncomfortable now. I acknowledged and validated
It didn't feel good to me but she seemed a little better.
We shall see
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13