Hope, I need your advice. I read the book so I know about Plan A and Plan B. But I guess I am not ready for Plan B because if I totally drop the rope and gave the ultimatum, then if he doesn't come back then I am nowhere with our M. That scenerio I cannot handle yet. What is your take on this, how do you handle this possible outcome?


Me:39
H:40
S:9
D:7
First Bomb ONS:June 07
Second Bomb OW: March 08
Separated: March 08
M:15 yrs
T:18 yrs
H deep into A with OW
Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09

'Yes, I can.'