And you are still dealing with some repressed anger, yourself, hon. Hope you are exercising the demons out. Yes, your stbx is from another planet, but you will feel much better when you expect the craziness from her and zen out about it. I kind of feel sorry for her - yes, its all her own doing, but what a life she has!
(btw, don't let that soften your resolve to continue on with a fair settlement--real life is about to bite her in the a$$. She really can live on her own salary, if she had to. You owe the kids, not her.)
You are avoiding telling us if you are looking for a bigger place...
