I hate that we are all in the same stitch and NONE of us can get on the same damn boat. Prepare for the worst and hope for the best. And I am convinced Murphy was a single mother, too. Wish it was Murphy Brown, though!!
It comes down to this. It makes me feel a ton better to think of us as working towards something and everything I am doing (or not doing) as not pointless. I can take care of the things I need to if I look at it like this. I can take care of me. I can not focus on Obtrusive Wench (OW, knew I'd come up with something.). I have more hope than I did yesterday. He may not come back. And that's okay, too. But I'll cross that bridge when I come to it. He hasn't filed for D. He hasn't worked on the papers. He's not doing anything to help the stitch, except by NOT doing anything. And maybe, for now, it's okay. I can live in a bubble for a little while. Not permanently, but for awhile.
I think you summed it up for me Mel. I'm on FB, we should hook up. Love the new abbr for OW.
Hang in there my dear
H-41 (alcoholic) Me-38 D-13 SD-10 T-6yrs M-4.75yrs Bomb-10/4/08 Moved in w/OW 11-13-08