Thanks for the reply. If he has noticed any of my changes he isn't saying or showing it. He's hell bent on D.
All the times that I gently nudged him so he would know that I still love him and I am trying to respect his need for space, he lashed back with pulling away even harder. So I haven't pushed or talked R or anything.
If you read my 1st thread you will see that he did notice my changes quite soon after he left. Then he just turned cold. Hasn't said a nice thing to me since.
I'm at a loss, could be that he's just to far gone. ?? IDK
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