Amen, MrsH. Snodderly your advice is very important to all of us here. Please continue to post.

MWG, I too am having a very hard time with all that you are enduring. Snodderly and MrsH and the others have given you great advice. Something has to change in your sitch or you will continue this way for the rest of your life. You deserve so much more than that. You are a kind and loving person. You are too kind sometimes and are being taken advantage of. This just kills me to see this happen. Bounderies are a good way to go. About the taxes, I have given you my opinion of that, I wouldn't give him anything.

Sorry if I have hurt your feelings but you know I love you like a sister and had to get it out!

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