Well, I did text her: I battled with it. I knew it would be hard on kids too because they get spoiled and all that.

ME: "If you bring him tomorrow, the kids and I will leave"

W: "Why would you do that? The kids do not care."

ME: "You will respect me and my family until our marriage is ended."

W: "The kids requested it. and BFF too. it is for them."
(yeah right, it's for them)

ME: "No. Let me make sure you understand: if he comes, we will leave."

Then she called to tell the kids good night, and had D8 sobbing for 20 minutes up in her room.

Sigh... It's not easy being strong and right, but I guess if it was, there'd be no WAS!

D8 is mad at ME now - but it'll be worth it all some day! \:\)

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