Yes FLTC, wigged out is an interesting description of her behaviour. Probably ditching my ass was the best thing she could have done for herself, we were becoming too cozy together and she had a R to protect. I understand that. But it was also a blow that came at the worst possible time for me and it damn well hurt! So I guess when I see her now I am not remembering the caring and the empathy, I'm remembering the hurt. I just don't want to stand around feeling strange because I don't know what to talk about anymore. The only thing we discuss is our kids, end of conversation. She never asks how I am or how I'm finding my apartment and she never tries to prolong the conversation. We're barely even acquaintances anymore and I just can't be bothered doing that. It probably just brings up negative stuff for both of us. I don't run into her very often but that connection is no longer one I wish to prolong. I used to feel that it was "adult" to stop and talk but maybe it's just plain stupid. So, unless it's unavoidable,I'm not doing it anymore!
