I'm not sure I have any further advice for you at the moment. Try not to think about OM. You don't want to end up with charges against you for assault. Keep yourself out of the slammer. She could turn that on you. Ya gotta keep your cool no matter what with OM. But I know my day is coming to when I will feel just like you.
I already have thought about those scenerios just reading your threads and how will I react to those. I'm praying mine doesn't come to that. But I know I will have to control my emotions if it does.
You got to also. You can certainly explain to your kids that this OM in no way represents their father. There is nothing wrong with that. You can also explain to them that if he was a good father, he wouldn't be putting his own kids through what he is doing.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
