W told kids that she was taking the day off to come to their basketball games tomorrow. Turns out she was planning on bringing the OM.
How disrespectful can you possibly be?
I told the kids I hadn't decided on it yet, and D8 started crying, and said OM was like a second father; which was funny because he doesn't even spend time with them.
If W had taken a day off work, and asked me to spend the day with the kids I would have let her, but she instead chose to spend it with OM. How pathetic.
I'm torn now between forcing her to honor me and my "new" family, or just ignoring them as if they weren't there. However, if he went, and tried to hug my kids or something, I would lay him out on the floor.
