My H left me in mid 2008 after a few years of coming and going etc etc. Within 4 weeks he had met OW. It has escalated to a point , that H ignores own kids and is oblivious to chaos within his family that his behaviour is causing.
Is this an affair ? He had left home ! What are the stages and timeline of an affair if there is one ? He is now very open with her! In fact she has never really been a secret. What should I do as an example to my kids and for my own self respect ?
