I'm sorry, I thought I was done posting, but I am just so bothered by this I had to post something else.
What many of us are going through is basically an emotional abuse. We set boundaries to help eliminate this.
If this was physical abuse, would anyone be giving the advice to MWG to still let him come over and feed him dinner? Would anyone be telling her that it's not her place to set boundaries? I just don't think Christ would expect us to sit back and take this, whatever abuse it is.
Yes he expects us to be loving, but he also expects us to love ourselves. No one is going to respect anyone who doesn't respect themselves.
MWG, I am not talking about you in particular. Just in general.
I am sorry you are going through this, I just am tired of seeing you struggling to make ends meet while he doesn't get off his arse to help you and your children out.
It's time for him to get off his pity chair and be a man.
