\My wife is going to leave me in 5 days--help!

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Melissa,
Thanks for posting. Hope that you have a good couple of days away from here. My wife is supposed to come over tonight for a sleepover with me daughter. I have cleaned the common areas, have candles going and am doing my best to remain calm. Talked with the counselor by myself today. She asked me a lot of questions about the wife and said she was very confused by the actions my wife has and is taking recently. Like the stripping for me on webcam on a daily basis within the last two weeks. Like the fact that she does not pray and does not want to prayed for. She said it's almost like she's done something she doesn't want to be forgiven for and doesn't think she will be forgiven for. And the way that she is taking all the bills and has talked about her understanding if I date while we are seperated. The MC asked if I thought my wife would speak to her alone. I said maybe if you asked her next session. I am calm tonight. I don't like this at all but am trying to remain calm. I think I am finally over my jetlag. I will not breakdown tonight. I will not hover over my wife. I will not talk about the future. I will not talk about the relationship. If she chooses to talk to me, then I will just listen. Other than that, I don't know what else to do.