VAl Day and The Non WAW

[lemonsnap]

Hi Twice,
If you are trying to pull away and detach, you need to do something minimal, if at ALL, for her.
Focus on your son and daughter and make this a special VD for THEM.
You shouldn't get something just because she is getting something. You have to do what feels right. Others seem to be sticking to small gestures like cards - nothing super romantic.
Good luck!