Thanks GB, you have a great day too! I'll be heading to my church for a movie, it's called Fireproof and it's about a couple that are heading for the big D but somehow turn it around. A romantic tearjerker! Wow, maybe some of the single women will be there and I can catch 'em when they're most vulnerable LOL. Well, tonight I went out and did some grocery shopping and then headed next door to the Drug Store to pick up some V Day stuff for my daughters. I walked through the door and standing five feet away from me is Coffee Buddy with her daughter. They were looking at some item near the entrance and I just walked on by. I just in an instant realized that approaching her was not something that does me any good, in fact, it brings back sh!t I don't need. They didn't see me so no harm done. It actually felt quite liberating to decide that I didn't need to talk to her as we have nothing really to say anymore. Polite crap is fine but I'll pass unless it would be rude to do so. I don't need that connection anymore. I guess that's a good thing. Little steps!