M, Hmmm....family? He may be a family member, but he's certainly got the best of both worlds right now. He's got the ho and his little cave to scurry to when he wants peace and quiet and when he wants a nice home cooked meal and entertainment, he's over at your place.
M, he may be family and it may not be a christian thing to do, but you need to draw a line in the sand and set some boundaries. God would not want you and your family treated in such a manner w/all of this struggling. I'm sorry, but it's time to do something different.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
