Someone talked about going dark being more like a dimmer switch, rather than an on-off sort of thing. It completely depends on your specific sit. I would certainly have a very difficult time going completely dark, and don't think I've reached that stage yet (hope I don't have to...).

"I told her I was going to dinner and out with friends."

Good for you! Have a great evening and enjoy your time.


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Me - 29
H - 29
M - 6 months
T - 8 years
ILYBNILWY - 1/24/09
Recovery begins 3/1/09