I'm doing great. My parents, S18, his girlfriend, D14, S13, & S9 & I had a fabulous time last night celebrating S18's b-day & me finishing school.
I'm sleeping better, eating better, & the stress is way down. D14 noticed I was singing to the car radio yesterday, & playing music as I cooked for the party. Both older kids helped clean house without being asked !!!
The only sad part for S was, H got home late, & missed most of it.
H e-mailed me a very brief summary of IC & told me his next appointment is Thursday.
I'm feeling pretty zen.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.