I struggled with this today. W said to do stuff for the daughters. Do I get W anything or not? Something small or not? Card? Flowers? Candy? Will it make her mad?

She has already filed for D and is waiting for me to get out of the house depending on if I get this job I am waiting to hear on.

I really want to get her something to show her I love her. But I'm not sure its a good idea. Will she be offended if I don't? Will she assume I no longer care? Is it a test? Will it make her happy if I don't?

Need advice.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...