I just wanted to say that I understand what you are going through. My H has actually been seeing his OW for 5 years now. Yeap, really long term. The go off and on and I actually tried to see if it would end by itself but it didn't and she is quite persistent and won't let it go. H and I had been S for 5 months and I feel that it great for H to just have OW without me so he can see what he has. But who knows if he will. I know you have gotten tons of advice already so I won't offer any. Just wanted to say that I understand I too know I need to draw the line and I'm trying my best to. Hugs.
