I just posted this on Treese's thread....I put on my 'naughty' shoes !!!! !!!!
You know I've been doing loads around the house too by myself, as H offers but never follows through and instead of 'waiting' for him to find the time, I usually do it myself. It has felt great and liberating to be honest... However tomorrow I have asked a guy I met a little over a year ago if his offer to come by and help me out with man-chores was still open...he sent a TM back saying 'of course !' so I asked him if he would mind hanging up some shelfs as I'm not good with drilling things into a wall...(This guy came over here about a year ago to cover the pool with some special stuff, he came over a few times after that and then one day he sent me a TM asking me out for a drink. I declined, told him I was married even though my H had run off with ow.) Well, yesterday I was brousing on a dating internet website, and believe it or not, I saw his picture and profile come by....so I decided to do a COMPLETE 180 and I sent him a TM on his phone (never mentioned the dating site of course !) asking him if his offer was still open. He was ever so sweet, and he's promised to try and come by tomorrow. The kids are away this weekend, and I'm a little nervous about having him in the house all by myself,(can I trust myself to be a 'good' girl???! )but I feel excited and it seems fun, to just do something I would NEVER have dared to do...!!
Oh well, just wanted to share that !
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
