Thanks WDID. In the beginning I was praying a ton, even though I'm not a terribly religous person. Spiritual yes, religous, no.
Might get back into that, but given I'm not much of a church guy, not sure how much he'll help.
I wonder sometimes if W recognizes that EGF is toxic? Like I said, last night, W was really quiet and withdrawn, but first thing this morning after I got to work, she's come back out of that funk. So that was pretty quick. We traded some emails about an incident with another one of the guys who works for me (I swear they don't pay me enough to deal with this sh*t) and one of my last comments to her was I was planning on hitting this little bar/restaurant near us tonight and if she was interested she's welcome to come along and she replied that it sounded like fun so we're going. Then tomorrow is the night away for the show.
WDID, when you first started recognizing that EGF was toxic and you'd spend time with her, did you still let her thoughts affect you? If so, how long would it take you to snap out of it? I know everyone is different, but just curious.
Puppy, LOL. Not needed though. If I go that route, my admin is full blooded Italian and has lots of "cousins" in the area. Crack me up. She told me one time that when she was young her family would go to funerals/picnics etc with "cousins". When she got older she was told "they're not really your cousins" and she was ticked because the guys were "hot" but she never pursued because they were related. Made me laugh out loud.
Thanks for the comments guys.
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.