Cookie,

Thanks for your words and HUGs - I needed that today. Right back at you (((Cookie))). I remember reading your oxygen mask piece - this book actually started one of the chapters also citing that metaphor.

Talked to W on cell at lunch. She got some more info from her L and then I told her I had also talked to one yesterday. She was a bit surprised, but she said she would get the petition drawn up and have me pick it up instead of being served.

We talked about time frames and the house and whether either of us could afford to keep the current house. It got a little emotional at times when we talked details, but we agreed to talk about it this weekend - tomorrow night - TOP THAT for a romantic Valentines Day gift!

W just called, upset about some of the numbers on child support that my L figured. She thought is was way low and wondered if I was trying to pull something on her. I calmly said no and we talked for 5 minutes (she was upset) and I said we could talk more on this this weekend.

NM


M: 48
H: 42
M: 14 yrs
3 kids
Bomb: 05/21/08
Status: Limbo

my story