Hi ppenton,
I'm sorry to hear about your challenges. I'm new on the boards, but I saw that you had some questions about going dark, and while I don't have the personal experience with it (yet) there is a great forum here that discusses it in a lot of detail.
[url] http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=postlist&Board=73 [url/]
I have no idea if that will work as a link, so perhaps if it doesn't, someone more technical can hook it up for us.
Keep us posted!


lemonsnap

Me - 29
H - 29
M - 6 months
T - 8 years
ILYBNILWY - 1/24/09
Recovery begins 3/1/09