I sure hope everything proves to show them you are what you profess to be.
I have been here 10 years and never missed a day of work. Your going in sentences say it all -- someone makes statements, there is no effort put into determining if they are true or false. I am vigilant.
I have not heard from WW in 4 1/2 months. On 13 Feb, four emails come in. There was an agenda behind each one -- basically telling me what I had to do. I made the mistake of replying to one -- I'll never do that again. It wiped out a couple months of healing and I felt lousey all day. WW changes her mind on settlement issues, adds things to her want list, and sets deadlines for me to accomplish her demands. I sent everything to the attorney. The lawyer can be the go between and earn the money that's been doled out.
I prepare for the worst, hope for the best, and struggle like h*ll.
Last edited by fitzge; 02/13/0906:34 PM.
BS (me) 57 WW (her) 51 M - 27+ years Sons - 34/21 daugh - 32/26 D-day - (A#1 Apr 98) (A#2 Oct 08) Status - minimal contact (me) living with OM (her) Divorce - Scheduled for Apr 09