WAW New life with OM

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I didn’t do so well in January, pleaded with W about how I was always there for her through all her surgeries, illness, hospitalizations, etc and that we always promised the kids to work out any issues with our marriage, so we’d always be together. This took me all month to realize I was just banging my head against a wall. She has even shutdown from her family and friends as she is making a whole new life. I hope she is happy cause she has hurt many people! I’m still surprised how fast everything happened. She met OM in October, I confronted her about EA on Dec 1, she started counseling on Dec 2 and by Dec 27 was out of love with me. W acted normal the whole time and even admitted how well she lied to me, her family and friends so she could leave me. W even got OM to give her a disposable phone so I had no idea she was contacting him. She would go out with friends and ditch them to meet with OM. So, I’m still in shock and frustrated that she didn’t want to work on M and so I’m trying to do all the GAL, LRT, 180s to get myself in a better place.