Hi PM, does your H know why you are not speaking to him? Or do you talk sometimes? When I gave my H the Plan B letter I told him I was detaching from him because I was starting to hate him and wanted to preserve what love I still had left for him.

Not a DB principle but the Plan B is basically a road map home with boundaries if things turn to dust with the OW.

You are doing great in spite of everything. Enjoy your family. I miss mine so much. My dad died 12 years ago on Father's Day. I still miss him everyday. He was the father we should all have in our lives.

Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09