Hope, I hope your Plan B works, I guess you've got nothing to lose now anyways, right? It's good that there is an investigation at work, I hope they move her as* out of your face. You really are strong to keep functioning normally at work with all this going on. Keep going, you are my hero.
PM, It is a stretch that I am "functioning normally" lol, but I try to get by each day without going to the plastic pinata's desk and bashing her. I even told PM that I felt like I was in a "hostile work enviroment" (harassment buzzword), and I was ready to jump a desk and get her but I will not get fired because of her. He said don't worry you won't get fired! Does that mean I can go and jump on her and pound her plastic body and face around for a bit...very tempting! I have nothing to lose and everything to gain. I have these talks with myself why do I want to put myself through this but in spite of all I still love my H. But I am realistic to know as long as he is addicted to the OW and to alcohol our M will not survive.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
