Good Morning Mr. Lost, I think you and I are in similiar boats, except it's my husband who wants to bail. You can read my sitch. I'm pretty new here, but I did get the DB Coaching. I paid for three sessions and it was a VERY HARD decision because money is tight for me too. However, I am beyond glad I did it. I've only done one session so far, with Jody and just the one session was worth every penny. She gave me insight that is worth platinum. She gave me homework that has already improved our relationship. We even had a blow out recently that went better because of the homework Jody gave me. Also, she gave me a title of book to read. If I had had this book a year ago, I'm sure my H and I would be someplace romantic this weekend. My advice: Get the DB Coaching. I am more confident now than ever before that my H will come home to me and our son. Before speaking with my DB Coach, H was saying and texting things such as "We're not married. Haven't been in months." "If it weren't for the economy, this would be a done deal by now." "This marriage is over." Even during our last blow out, he NEVER mentioned the D work or our relationship being over. NEVER. NOT ONCE. That alone makes the cost of DB Coaching worth it to me. It's the biggest stride since he left and I attribute it to the insight and advice given to me by my DB Coach and also I do have a therapist right now, and she's been great too in helping with some things. (I do have a temper, unfortunately, but I'm working on it.) Also lately H has started to tell me again (like the good old days) I'm beautiful and sexy and desireable. He says very flirty things to me and I can't help but smile and just compliment him too. Lots of ego boosting going on right now between the two of us. Finally, while we aren't going anywhere for this weekend, we are going to be together with some friends at their house. That's a pretty big stride for us. You can do this. You can fight. If you feel like I do, it's all you can do. If you were really going to war, wouldn't you want as many weapons as possible? DB Coaching is the strongest weapon I've acquired so far in this war to save my marriage. You can do this. Fight.
