OK so you get my drift and Gineen sees what I am saying as well. In my mind the fully DB'd person may not be the fully healed person. I just thought what I read in that e-mail sort of fit where you are right now. I wanted to share. Glad you see it for what it is and are willing to give R with MOT35 a breather to see what it is. I am seeing some female attention and even my medical Dr. told me the other day that once I've healed, I will have no problem finding a better W than the one I had. We discussed new relationships last night in my group and one of the guys said that when your self-worth isn't tied to what another person thinks of you, then you are complete. I don't like the timetable they suggest of four months of healing for every year of marriage, but I also don't want to rush into something and end up the worse for it later. LE
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A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.
