Dan is closing on the house again today, redoing the parts regarding financing. I will be on the title according to our state guidelines, since I am still his spouse. But I will not be on the loan so it will NOT reflect on my credit or anything else.
I did see on the papers yesterday my credit score is upper 700s so I got that goin' for me... Being responsible is still important in some parts of the world I guess!
Today is school valentine parties, my kids are so excited. And we may get out early due to an impending storm. 6-8 inches of snow plus 30 mph winds = early out!
Anyway I am backing off on Dan. He is not 'scheduled' to see the kids until Monday so I will let them call him in the evenings but I won't contact him at all.
The kids picked out his Valentine's present last night. Nathan wanted to buy more star wars toys, i told him the 12 toys he got his dad for Christmas were enough.
I told him to pick something he and Sydney and his Dad could do together. So he picked out a cake pan and cookie sheet for Daddy to have at his house so they can still bake together. (H loves cake/brownies/cookies, where I am more of a salty snack person)
I will get nothing for Dan. I know we are still married and he claims he wants us to get back together but right now we are apart, so no gift or card from me.