Guy time is great! Worst case scenario you can always have a 'bromance'!
That whole dating thing is so weird.. especially with online match ups. You can be 'seen' by a zillion more people in 24 hours than in 12 months of your everyday life. It also works at hyper speed, where you go from just being you to having a date/interaction every night with a few coffees tossed in.
Me.. I think it's good to be slow. Knowing me, I could be too slow. I mean, really, a snail eventually gets where it's going.. right? (Ack..having images of a little GPS in the snail shell giving directions).
Some folks say it's a numbers game.. keep churning until you find what's right, what's better, what's best... a business proposition.
Me? I'm sweet, fun and engage on a social level with laughter. I know I have a booboo to my psyche and proceed cautiously. Heck.. I haven't proceeded in weeks.. but it's the thought that counts!