It sounds like both our ex wives continue to ask us for "things". I guess they know we have a hard time saying no. Maybe they think our LL is acts of service or whatever. It does not surprise me and i got a chuckle out of your taxes post because I get asked for stuff as well. In my case, I am strangely "happy" that she still asks for my opinions. I know it will eventually stop so I don't sweat it too much. Your kids sure seem to have alot of activities. Perhaps trimming one would alleviate some of your scheduling problems.