My first step out of Newcomers

[PositivelyMommy]

Hi Kev,

Sounds like your interactions are calming down a lot which is great. I am glad you are controlling your actions and that WeeMan is being loved by so many people. That is very important for him.

Regarding your comment about more WAH come back than WAW. I think there might be a few differences. I think all WAS walk away because they are unhappy but I think more LBW tend to sit down, calm down and wait than LBH. I have seen women on this board who has waited years for their WAH. These women have will-power. Whereas a lot of LBH tend to want to move on with their lives after the first year or so. This is my unproven hypothesis anyway. I don't know if the WAW would eventually come back to their husbands or not but I think if more husbands waited just a little longer (studies prove that the infatuated period rarely lasts over two years) then maybe their wife would have reconsidered. But because they want to move on with their lives they then are open to new relationships and may find someone else.

I am not advocating one way or another, it's just an observation that I have seen a lot of women who hold out for a LONG time and not that many men.