After talking with Doc yesterday, I decided to call H & offer a proposal.
I told H that I was prepared to move out, but since neither of us have a paycheck at the moment, that wasn't very smart. If I moved out, it would just deplete our savings faster. I said I did not want to share a bed right now, & if he would agree to sleep anywhere but our bed, I would stay in the home. He agreed.
I like it when people start to use the term "I decided".. Excellent choice of words telling him what you wanted. In these situations, each and EVERY word is very very important. One wrong word can ruin an otherwise wonderful statement. Good job. I notice that "he agreed"..... Very good.
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He e-mailed me today, & told me that he had IC today at 5 pm.
That was probably the first available appointment the IC had. Remember... He did this without any pressure from you. Matter of fact, it happened rather quickly once the pressure stopped. Try to keep this in mind.
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I'm not afraid of this. I moved out at 16, & lived alone til 25. I also got an e-mail from the police dept. After reviewing my application, they've invited me to the next step towards employment.
Good. That takes one important factor out of the equation.
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Doc says any change can be viewed as a threat or an opportunity. I see opportunity.
This Doc seems to know his stuff. Excellent advice and excellent thoughts by you on how you are viewing change.
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I feel amazingly good & strong.
(analogy for you to chew on) When you fly with the eagles you will notice that there are only other eagles around you. You will recognize other eagles and realize that even though there are not many of them, that it is beyond our understanding how good it feels to be one. Keep flying with the eagles. You will recognize them when you meet them.
