LE - We met when I was really happy, which I kinda think is part of why we met as I was getting a lot of female attention as Mikey will vouch for, that seems to come with the fully DB'd person. Once your done and over it (you still have lapses yes), most of the time the things you've learnt about yourself, the improvements you've made as a person and the whole happy persona you are displaying seems to attract plenty.
Anyway, back to point.....Was thinking bout this a bit yesterday. MOT35 was keener when I was more distant, once I started to be obviously keen, she has almost tried to take control and I'm not going down that slippery slope again. She is round tonite so I will say something but after this weekend we wont see each other for 2 weeks and I think that has come at a great time. Time for both of us to re evaluate etc.