NewMe, see there is detached and DETACHED ! Now you sound like the 2nd one.
I'm glad you're calm. Calm is good. I'm also glad to hear that you're no longer afraid of being alone. You will be allright. Things will get better. I really appreciated you sharing the four degrees of love. I can see where I was a while ago, & where I am now. I also see where H is.
We're not a match.
take care of you. I don't know if you have read where I talk about the airplane analogy...... they always tell you, if you're traveling with children, put on your own oxygen mask first. Save yourself first, that way, you'll be able to help them.
Hugs
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
