I was thinking of you just last night and then I come on and read this. Does Sara really need to ask if something happened lately? What about your post when we all knew he was there hoping to finish off the evening with some 'loving' and got cross because he found the kids round at your house.....then after that you see OW contacting him when the Super Bowl game is on. Come on. Your H has not changed the way he behaves.......it suits him. He is probabaly thinking it won't be that long before OW's son is old enough to leave home. He has the pick of two women.
YOU KNOW ALL THIS.
It's just a question of when you feel you are able to do something about it. Time and time again he has indicated that hitting him in the wallet is what will do it.
Yoyo, I love and respect you........your H may love you but he sure doesn't respect you. Are you ready to do something? Personally I think you should have told him what you thought when you went to see him.
You are a very intelligent, articulate woman, beautiful woman...your H is an idiot. Show him the curb - please. Show your girls how they should behave when a man treats them like a worthless piece of sh!t.
I love you so much Yoyo.....I hate to come back and see you in the same situation. It's great he bought you a new car....think of how much it would cost him to keep going to see whores and what he might catch with them. You are much cheaper and a known option and he always ensures that you are still only involved with him. Also the car was a whole lot cheaper than a divorce.
I know I am being harsh but I am trying to say it as it is.
((((((HUGS)))))))
You deserve so much more and you KNOW it and you need to ensure you show your girls that they deserve so much more and also that they do not grow up 'man haters'.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
