Hi Lisa,

I don't really have much to add because it sounds like you are doing so well already.

I really don't understand your H. The way you describe him it definitely sounds as though he is not happy with what he is doing and how things have ended up with you, yet he is not saying/doing anything about it. On the positive side sounds like you are doing OK with this all anyway, and have moved forward emotionally.

Does he have all his stuff from your house now? Are there any more "reasons" why you will need to see him? I understand you are fine without seeing him, just curious whether he might try to keep in touch.

So maybe we should switch to CEO now. If you are keeping a job working for him, would this preclude any dating/getting together? Are you still as interested as you were before?

By the way I LOVE Borough Market. I think it is one of my favorite places in London.

Glad to hear that you are doing so well, even with the difficult circumstances.

ITH


Me:34 H:36 M:5 years T: 8 years
Bomb: 07/17/08 I want to be separated for 6 months--I don't know what I want the outcome to be
S 07/28/08-11/08/08
Living together ~7 months D Possibly busted?!?!!!