((((VH))))))))

<<<but indecisiveness will drive you crazy!

You're right. The stress eats you alive.

<<He could control the old, weak, crumbly cookie, and he got used to it. The new cookie threatens him, I think.

Ya think ?? The new cookie feels rather bulletproof. ;\)


M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months
4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.