T, no powder kegs. I'm in a good place. I'm in control of me now. I'm not being reactive. I'm being proactive.
He went to IC today. I never voiced any preference on whether he found a new C, or went to our old C.... all of that was his choice.
My comment was that what if he finds a C that says he is healthy, yet he is still being emotionally or verbally abusive to me, then where do we go from there ?
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
