Thanks Cinders, SC and MWG. That website helped me tremendously. Not for the D part but just understanding how to communicate and for the forgiveness and having the right attitude.

H called today and said I am on my way to the house. I made dinner for us and the kids.

H helped the kids with their Vday cards. It looked as if h was enjoying himself. He said he didn't remember doing Vday cards as a kid, but liked receiving them.

Now h early in the week said he wouldn't be by all week, but has actually made it over 3 nights this week. He has been very attentive and gave me lots of hugs and attention.

He was so helpful with the kids too. I really appreciate that.

When he left he said Glam see you Sat for D4's 5th birthday. She is a Vday birthday.

We are going bowling on Sat and on Sun maybe a movie. I am off this Sun.

Thanks MWG for the reminder when the timing is right. That is exactly it.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"