Thanks Cinders, SC and MWG. That website helped me tremendously. Not for the D part but just understanding how to communicate and for the forgiveness and having the right attitude.
H called today and said I am on my way to the house. I made dinner for us and the kids.
H helped the kids with their Vday cards. It looked as if h was enjoying himself. He said he didn't remember doing Vday cards as a kid, but liked receiving them.
Now h early in the week said he wouldn't be by all week, but has actually made it over 3 nights this week. He has been very attentive and gave me lots of hugs and attention.
He was so helpful with the kids too. I really appreciate that.
When he left he said Glam see you Sat for D4's 5th birthday. She is a Vday birthday.
We are going bowling on Sat and on Sun maybe a movie. I am off this Sun.
Thanks MWG for the reminder when the timing is right. That is exactly it.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"